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The disappearance of duality

It's....almost erotic when our awareness becomes center of everything

So, what can we experience in this amazingly beautiful, transformative merging, meeting, becoming-one-with space?

Duality, and the social dynamic of me or them, transforms into the oneness of 'us', or just 'this' (this moment, this vibration, this sensation). It's similar to the dynamic of 'falling in love' where we initially allow ourselves to focus, embrace and birth the vibration of love simultaneously, and without fear. We open up and experience love as an energy. We use the 'other' as the object of our love, but actually what is happening is that we are vibrating love  with full harmony and resonance, while 'taking in' , or 'being with'...anything, it can be another person, a sunset, an event. At that moment we aren't loving 'it', we are loving, or rather, we are the energy of love, and we are vibrating love as we allow ourselves to include that 'other' thing, person, or place. --Harmony Gates

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