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Finding Harmony


a struggle
a lost brother
uncertainty

an emptiness is there
Loneliness for self
no reflection.

"Who am I?"
am I enough?

no sense of security; of belonging

No one knows and
No one talks.

Alone.

The object of her self-rejection:
Sexual frigidity
Bulimic behavior
An abortion at age 22

And she drifts..



She Chooses Her Self
Healing Journey


Dancing and Feeling
Searching for Love--

inside herself.

Through persistent effort,
unfolding step by step
The Gift of Healing
happens in relationship.

She finds her will.

She surprises herself.
She is Amazing!

Celebrating, Honoring

That she is Enough
She is valuable!

It's OK
to not know.
Leading is a Gift

She moves ahead
claims her Mastery

shares her Passion

Trusting

         even in the not knowing.  

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