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Life Companion

I don't have the life companion, or soul mate that I desire. But do I have myself. And I can choose to be my own soul mate and life companion in a tangible, supportive, and consistent way.

I also wish I had more consistent and frequent encounters with folks whom I do know and are in my 'inner circle'. Even so, I can show up fully, vulnerably and authentically with whomever I do personally encounter. I can engage each person, even if there is only ever this one meeting; with my whole, undefended heart and soul. I can listen to their heart and share my own. 

So in this way,  I do have a life companion, (me) and we have unlimited opportunities to meet our fellow humans and build intimacy in each and every personal encounter, creating the supportive and loving family we desire. 

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